Such a fun topic - I drive. Almost all of it, unless I ask DH to drive on a longer trip. Sometimes I make him just to keep him fresh. He does fine for the most part, and he'd be completely competent if I ever left him do it as much as I do. I hauled big GN horse trailers for years, so naturally I had the experience. I really enjoy it, and I liked the challenge of being able to put it where ever I want. I regularly haul alone with 2 kids and the dog. The camping thing was my desire before it was my husband's so he leaves it all to me, including maintenance and stuff as well. That's fine - keeps me independent and confident (and perhaps a bit sassy lol).
I will say to those DW that don't do it often. Become at least comfortable going down the road, don't worry about backing up. I have never, ever pulled into anywhere - campground, horse show, even a gas station where someone hasn't offered to help if I looked perplexed or struggled. I'm not too proud to ask for help. I am quite good at backing in, but there was a time that I wasn't....and I'd try, and they'd coach me, and if I got too frustrated, I'd just get out and hand them the keys lol.
Out of the group that we camp with, there are two women that will haul, and I love it. There have been many times that our husband's have worked, or that we did girls weekends where we hauled ourselves. My 60 year old Mom will also haul, though she's not as good at backing up, she'd manage. She and I take the kids and go on two longer trips a year, and she will do some of the driving, even with the big toy hauler.
Great to see others doing the same, and boys, kudos to you all for encouraging your wives to try and respecting when they truly aren't cut out for it!