We have been to Bethpage a couple of times. The sites are laid kind of strange, but there is a little room between you and your neighbor. I have a pick I'll post. We were camping with friends so it helps. We won't be back however, there rates skyrocketed after they put in a new water park. But after labor day there rates do drop. Lots to do for the kids, Lots of golf carts running around. But they enforce the rules about them. Haven't been to their sister campground Grey's Point.
Our friends were in the hybrid. We could have gone awning to awning which would have been cool. But we were alittle deep in the site. They fill up the other sites next to you during the Oyster Fest. Its really crowded then!