It's always funny.

[77cruiser]

Even pull throughs the wife back there flapping her arms & the guy getting out yelling at her.
Had kind of a tight spot to back in today, she say you want me to go back there, naw just sit tight it's OK.

[Laredo Tugger]

Careful cruiser.
You don't want to be the "entertainment" for some other guy watching you back into a "tight spot" and you hit something with DW in the truck.
He will just mumble to himself about how you should have used her help.
In my former profession we had rules to live by (literally). We added our own, "if you think it can't happen to you, think again".
RMc

[77cruiser]

We added our own, "if you think it can't happen to you, think again".
RMc
Been there.

[flybouy]

x2 on the DW flailing her arms like she just stepped on a bees nest. On a different post someone was talking about their DW helping with the blank tank. Don't get me wrong I love my wife dearly but there's no way I want her messing with hoses when she doesn't know left from right.
:eek:

[notanlines]

It more than likely has kept them together for 40-50 years. Yelling and arm flapping will do that....

[FlyingAroundRV]

We use a pair of cheapo walkie-talkies from WallyWorld. Works a treat. The DW says "back an inch, left a bit" and all is good. We gave up the hand waving after about the third CG. Usually the DW was out of sight of the mirrors most of the time.
I always get out and make my appraisal of where I want to go and how to get there. DW just watches that I don't hit something I can't see. The WTs are really good though for getting the ball lined up with the hitch...we don't have a backup camera.
Edit: the only problem is that the DW is technology challenged and forgets to let go of the PTT button sometimes, or forgets to press it when she wants to say something.

[bobbecky]

Our truck has the bluetooth system where it connects to my cell phone, and my DW will just call me after she gets out, and we can talk while I back in to a spot. If there is a problem, I just stop and get out to see for myself how to maneuver safely.

[flybouy]

We tried the walkie talkies and yup she would forget to push the PTT or forget to let go. We used cell phone and blue tooth but cell signal can be elusive in many cg's. The camera install on the back of the camper was the best investment. Now when we pull up to a site my DW will ask if I need her help and I'll say yes dear, you can help me by standing out of the way and making sure the dog doesn't get run over. She feels good that she's helping and I don't have the distractions. (I guess I've learned something in 39 1/2 years of marriage) :)

[sourdough]

Our truck has the bluetooth system where it connects to my cell phone, and my DW will just call me after she gets out, and we can talk while I back in to a spot. If there is a problem, I just stop and get out to see for myself how to maneuver safely.

^^^^This is what we do. Used to use walkie talkies but like the Bluetooth in the truck. Really liked when the backup camera was in the big 8.4" screen but this truck has the bed camera so the backup camera is in the corner of the rear view mirror which is almost useless.

[GMcKenzie]

Guess my wife is different. She knows if she can see my mirrors, I can see her. She knows when to make me stop to get out and look for myself.

Tried the walkie talkies, but don't really find we need them.

She's not touching the hookups though.

Love to have a camera on the trailer. Next one will have it.

[wiredgeorge]

When my wife tries to guide me in by yelling and waving her arms in circles, I get confused. I prefer to back up with no witnesses. I can do it if left to it long enough and nobody watching. Slow... correct.... pull forward a bit, REPEAT. :rolleyes:

[flybouy]

Guess my wife is different. She knows if she can see my mirrors, I can see her. She knows when to make me stop to get out and look for myself.

Tried the walkie talkies, but don't really find we need them.

She's not touching the hookups though.

Love to have a camera on the trailer. Next one will have it.

I installed the camera soon after buying the camper. Found it was a great help with the 35 1/2' trailer backing into some of the older cg in the east that were built for 55' Buick pulling 19' camper. I also use my parking aid that I made when backing into some VERY tight spots. I took a rope the length of the trailer and tied/taped rope at 90 deg where each slide out wall extends that are the length of the slideout. Once positioned on the ground I leave there and use it as a back up aid in the mirror. One particular trip to Gettysburg PA (Granite Hill CG) did it. The site was a nightmare, it took about 40 min to get both slides out AND the outside kitchen open due to the layout with the old growth trees. I should have taken pics but by the time I was finished I needed some PTSD therapy. One tree in between the 2 slides with ,1" clearance and the outside kitchen door opened to less than 1/4" of hitting a tree. I was so angry we never returned to that CG.😣

[vampress_me]

I guess we do like GMcKenzie does. DH and the kids know that if they can’t see the truck’s mirror I have no clue where they are. Hubby of course knew about that already and knows where to stand all the time so I can see him. Kiddos learned real quick if helping mom back in that if I just stop moving, they need to figure out and move to where they can see one mirror or the other. Hand signals used for direction work good for us too.

We tried radios once. Decided they were more of a pain than they were worth.

Of course, the lady last weekend that sounded like she could cheerfully kill her hubby while “directing” his backing while shouting at him was a little entertaining to listen to, sort of. But I am amazed her hubby put up with it.

[NavyDiver1980]

I have new fangled hearing aids that have a blue tooth microphone. I can hear her just fine with it up to about 20meters.

[77cruiser]

I have new fangled hearing aids that have a blue tooth microphone. I can hear her just fine with it up to about 20meters.
But do you want to:D

[UsTwo]

I tried to explain to my wife what I needed to get backed into any spot.. She did the arm flapping junk for about a year.. I would let her flap away and then get out and look. She felt so bad about not getting it right. So we went back through the process again.. I said its like this, If you can't see me in the mirrors or vise versa I can't see you.. If I can't see you I will stop and let you look like a fool back there waving arms and yelling..I did remind her the fun of others watching her help. She does a really good job now.. I even got her a small PVC pole that has been marked and taped off, so she can judge how far away from the Elec. outlet we need to be..

[Laredo Tugger]

I liked your PVC pole idea until I realized I would be handing the DW something else she could hit me with. Think I'll go with yarn. :hide:
RMc

[LHaven]

^^^^This is what we do. Used to use walkie talkies but like the Bluetooth in the truck. Really liked when the backup camera was in the big 8.4" screen but this truck has the bed camera so the backup camera is in the corner of the rear view mirror which is almost useless.

My wife refuses to let me pair her phone to her truck because she "doesn't want to be distracted while she is driving." She also hates to use her backup camera, preferring the mirrors. Today, we had a particularly stressful session hooking up the ProPride hitch (which is like threading a hot dog into a donut in 3D), because she also left her hearing aids in the trailer.

Sigh.

[flybouy]

"because she also left her hearing aids in the trailer." :lol:

A few years ago my DW was on my case and accused me of "mumbling" and "slurring" my words. Funny thing, after she got her hearing aids my speech improved dramatically! :cool:

[JRTJH]

My wife refuses to let me pair her phone to her truck because she "doesn't want to be distracted while she is driving." She also hates to use her backup camera, preferring the mirrors. Today, we had a particularly stressful session hooking up the ProPride hitch (which is like threading a hot dog into a donut in 3D), because she also left her hearing aids in the trailer.

Sigh.

I've never heard anyone compare hitching a ProPride to hotdogs and donuts, but I think you've probably come closer to the frustration of hitching up than any account I've read in recent times.... Quite the "play on words" :popcorn:

[CaptnJohn]

No more hands waving or phones. I just turn on the voice on the backup camera.I can see her even out of mirror view.

[kksfish]

I tried to explain to my wife what I needed to get backed into any spot.. She did the arm flapping junk for about a year.. I would let her flap away and then get out and look. She felt so bad about not getting it right. So we went back through the process again.. I said its like this, If you can't see me in the mirrors or vise versa I can't see you.. If I can't see you I will stop and let you look like a fool back there waving arms and yelling..I did remind her the fun of others watching her help. She does a really good job now.. I even got her a small PVC pole that has been marked and taped off, so she can judge how far away from the Elec. outlet we need to be..



Yeah on letting her look like a fool. “And then the fight started “

[flybouy]

No more hands waving or phones. I just turn on the voice on the backup camera.I can see her even out of mirror view.

When my wife was behind the trailer I turned the mic off on my camera. I found the " go left" verbal command and the right hand waving and pointing to the right to be too confusing. :banghead:

[newemptynester]

GMcKenzie that is how me and the DH do it. I am always in view of the mirrors and I may look like a fool running from one side to the other to make sure we don't hit anything. We have not fought about parking the TT in years.

[GMcKenzie]

I liked your PVC pole idea until I realized I would be handing the DW something else she could hit me with. Think I'll go with yarn. :hide:
RMc

I have a chunk of rope cut to the right length. I guess she could swing it at me. :lol:

[jimborokz]

We do like Bob and Becky. DW calls me on her cell and I use the hands free in the truck to ask questions. No yelling, no arm waving. If she's not sure of something she will just say you better come back and look. Main object is to not hit anything. We've gotten into some pretty tight places.
48 years and still happy
:flowers:

[KSH]

My wife refuses to let me pair her phone to her truck because she "doesn't want to be distracted while she is driving." She also hates to use her backup camera, preferring the mirrors. Today, we had a particularly stressful session hooking up the ProPride hitch (which is like threading a hot dog into a donut in 3D), because she also left her hearing aids in the trailer.



Sigh.

I wish it was a donut! I've learned with my 3p if I'm having problems I probably have to drop the arms down to let the head move a bit by itself.

[LHaven]

I wish it was a donut! I've learned with my 3p if I'm having problems I probably have to drop the arms down to let the head move a bit by itself.

After about 60 days on the road with mine, I figured out that the secret is to jack the jacks down at unhooking past the point where they flop freely, until they just begin to stiffen up again. This keeps enough tension on the head to prevent it from rotating down once the stinger leaves. When you maintain alignment in all three dimensions when unhooking, it's amazing how much easier re-hitching becomes.