First, I'm not a lady, so I can't give you that "slant on things".
That said, I have been married to the most tolerant, understanding, congenial lady I've ever known for 50 years (June 14, this year) and can give you a bit of insight about her feelings. As a military wife, home was where they sent us. As a family, as long as we were all in one place, it was home. As a mother, staying close to and being a part of our children's lives has always been very important to her, maybe even more important than it is to me. Now, as for you, NOBODY on any forum can suggest what is (or isn't) important to you, to your husband, to your family. That's far too personal and the only right answers are the ones that those involved can agree upon.
All that said, you have a horse that sounds (from your statements) to be a very large, important part of your life and something that brings great pleasure to you. If you're "full timing across the country," how much impact will not having your horse along bring to your enjoyment of the adventure?
Again, I'm not able to look at this "through your eyes" but, as an "outsider and male" looking at some of the things that are important to my wife and therefore, things that are important to me. She wouldn't be happy to be "semi-permanently" separated from the things that are most important to her behind her relationship with me. YMMV
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John
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