Hi Mandy,
Welcome to the forum, and thank you & your family for the dedication & service to our country!
Try Google - use the terms 'RV makeover' and/or 'RV remodel'
Numerous sites, photos, blogs, YouTube videos, and even some books available.
Here's a few to get you started.....
These folks remodeled 3 different RV's
http://www.flickr.com/photos/happyja...7622454912685/
http://nodestination.org/blog/?p=57
Shopping list for above remodel:
http://nodestination.org/blog/?page_id=145
http://rvnow.rvtravel.com/2009/01/rv...you-money.html
http://rv-roadtrips.thefuntimesguide...odeling_rv.php
http://www.rv-boondocking-the-good-l...emolition.html
ON EDIT: here's a couple more...
Check out some of my "Extreme Makeovers" (as per RV owner)
http://picasaweb.google.com/alpenlit...eat=directlink
Tips on painting RV Walls:
http://www.rvhobby.com/2009/02/paint...ls-of-your-rv/
Hope this helps...
Terri, the Chevy co-pilot
