Glenda (may I call you Glenda?), what you are experiencing is a very gradual learning slope, one which could lead you to being a moderator one day. You know; those highly paid, knowledge-filled, masters of the RV trade that keep us all in line. Some of us have learned our lessons with a serious frown on our face. Wanna hear my low-hanging steel cable story? I thought not.....
You might not look back on this and laugh, but you will remember all the ins and outs of the problem and know what to do next time!